Reclaim Your Voice: Lessons From Moms Who Started It All (#8)


When You Aren’t Given a Voice, Reclaim It Anyway

Hello Reader,

As parents raising autistic kids, we are constantly tested. Our patience. Our threshold. Our ability to articulate a need in the middle of chaos.

Yesterday, I found myself in one of those moments. My son was already overwhelmed, his little body tense, his voice rising with fear. And instead of being met with compassion, we were met with resistance. Multiple grown men stood their ground, dismissing us, their authority pressing down harder than my son’s tears ever could.

I tried to speak. To explain. To advocate. But I wasn’t given the chance. My words were brushed aside, my presence treated like an inconvenience.

In the past, I might have left quietly, embarrassed, replaying the moment later in my head. But this time was different. Because when it comes to my child, there is no fight not worth having. I want him to know, without question, that I will always stand up for him. That he is always worth it.

Some battles in life don’t matter. But the ones that involve our children always do. Especially when they are disregarded, dismissed, or, in the worst moments, bullied by adults who should know better.

In those moments, your voice matters. Even if no one offers you a platform, take one. It’s not always necessary to yell. But if silence means your child is overlooked, then speak loud enough to make the world hear it too.

You may be only one person, but you are one person who can make a difference.

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Look at me and scream in my face, while my son cries at my feet.

He hears everything you yell, yet you never see his feat.

Now look at him and say those things, and see if you could.

Regardless if you look at him or me, he still hears every word.

Yet, all you give him is the fear that he does not belong.

That he’s not welcomed, that his existence is somehow wrong.

You crowd him with your orders, with no kindness, no embrace,

And carve a scar into his joy, in this supposed “safe” place.

His laughter was the ocean’s song, his comfort hard-won peace,

But your voices turned it brittle, and tore it into grief.

Do you know what it takes for him, to even step inside?

How bravery is stitched from pain, and courage won from pride?

You saw a boy who’s different, and chose to push him out.

Not once did you stop to listen, not once erase his doubt.

And I, his mother, standing here, my heart a shield of flame,

Will write his story everywhere, and speak your crew by name.

Because inclusion is not hollow, nor a slogan to be sold.

It is measured in compassion, in the hands we choose to hold.

You failed him when he needed you, and you failed us all today,

But we will rise, we always do and you will hear what we say.

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Q: How do you cope when the system lets you down?

A: Find your tribe. Connect with other parents who get it. Celebrate the small wins daily, no matter how tiny. And give yourself permission to feel everything, anger, sadness, frustration, without guilt. Advocacy isn’t just about fighting the system; it’s about preserving your own strength so you can keep going.

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